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How slowing down and finding peace can transform your career

Stephanie Wellington, MD
Physician
January 10, 2025
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While a new year offers new beginnings, it’s not about scrapping everything and starting fresh. Instead, it means sitting still and quiet long enough to truly appreciate life lessons and use them as fuel for growth.

So, here’s what I’m taking from one year to the next.

Peace

In 2024 I learned that life’s events can shake you to your very core, and there’s little you can do to stop it. But when you reach for peace—focus on finding peace—look for peace everywhere, you realize that in the midst of the challenge and chaos, peace is there, and you’re all right. Peace isn’t found in the external experiences. It is an inner game, found deep within. It’s available when you’re not sure what’s your next move or how you will get through the next day. It’s present in this moment and the next, and the one after that.

Grief was the teacher of this lesson. And if peace is possible navigating personal grief, it certainly is possible in other areas of life and career. It’s available when paged to the delivery room for a birth. I can choose peace instead of stress. With peace, I remain calm as I assess and implement the needed interventions in the stepwise manner I’m trained to do. I anticipate the patient’s needs and clearly communicate them to the team. When I opt for peace now, I get the best outcome as well.

Slow down

Interestingly, when you slow down, time expands. Simply slowing down improves productivity as priorities become clear. Instead of feeling rushed and overwhelmed, the energy is focused on the meaningful actions to take to achieve the goal. When obstacles arise, the solutions reveal themselves.

Enjoy the process

What happened to the fun once had in medicine? There was once camaraderie and a sense of community as physicians, nurses, therapists, and interdisciplinary team members worked together for optimal patient outcomes. There’s been a shift. We work in silos. Silos create separation. Yes, patient care is serious business, but we can still appreciate each person’s contributions and enjoy the process. Glimpses of this joy emerge when we work in our zone of genius, honor one another, and end the day feeling fulfilled. Medicine needs more of this.

As I move into another year of clinical medicine, there’s excitement—excitement as I discover the ways peace, slowing down, and enjoying the process positively impact the way I show up for myself, patients, and team.

Stephanie Wellington is a physician, certified professional coach, and founder of Nurturing MDs, dedicated to guiding physicians from stress and overwhelm to ease and flow in the demanding medical field. She empowers clinicians to infuse new energy into their careers and reconnect with their identities beyond the stethoscope. She can also be reached on Facebook and LinkedIn.

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