Skip to content
  • About
  • Contact
  • Contribute
  • My Book
  • Careers
  • Podcast
  • Transcripts
  • Speaking
KevinMD
  • All
  • Physician
  • Burnout
  • Practice
  • Policy
  • Finance
  • Conditions
  • .edu
  • Patient
  • Meds
  • Tech
  • Social
  • All
  • Physician
  • Burnout
  • Practice
  • Policy
  • Finance
  • Conditions
  • .edu
  • Patient
  • Meds
  • Tech
  • Social
    • All
    • Physician
    • Burnout
    • Practice
    • Policy
    • Finance
    • Conditions
    • .edu
    • Patient
    • Meds
    • Tech
    • Social
    • About
    • Contact
    • Contribute
    • My Book
    • Careers
    • Podcast
    • Transcripts
    • Speaking
KevinMD
  • All
  • Physician
  • Burnout
  • Practice
  • Policy
  • Finance
  • Conditions
  • .edu
  • Patient
  • Meds
  • Tech
  • Social
    • All
    • Physician
    • Burnout
    • Practice
    • Policy
    • Finance
    • Conditions
    • .edu
    • Patient
    • Meds
    • Tech
    • Social
    • About
    • Contact
    • Contribute
    • My Book
    • Careers
    • Podcast
    • Transcripts
    • Speaking
  • About Kevin Pho, MD, Founder of KevinMD
  • Be heard on social media’s leading physician voice
  • Contact Kevin
  • Custom enhanced author page pricing
  • DMCA Policy
  • Establishing, Managing, and Protecting Your Online Reputation: A Social Media Guide for Physicians and Medical Practices
  • KevinMD influencer opportunities
  • Opinion and commentary by KevinMD
  • Physician burnout speakers to keynote your conference
  • Physician Coaching by KevinMD
  • Physician keynote speaker: Kevin Pho, MD
  • Physician Speaking by KevinMD: a boutique speakers bureau
  • Primary care physician in Nashua, NH | Kevin Pho, MD
  • Privacy Policy
  • Recommended services by KevinMD
  • Terms of Use Agreement
  • Thank you for subscribing to KevinMD
  • Thank you for upgrading to the KevinMD enhanced author page
  • Upgrade to the KevinMD enhanced author page

Is your doctor really present during your visit?

Suzanne Koven, MD
Physician
August 5, 2013
Share
Tweet
Share

During a recent visit to Dublin I was saw a neon sign in a pharmacy which read: “Doctor present.”

I was, first, amused by the wording. Dublin, home of George Bernard Shaw and Yeats and Joyce (and storytellers and bards in every pub) is a city with a deep and natural love of language–where even pharmacy signs are poetry.

But, next, I got to thinking. Am I “present” in my practice, even when I am in?

Though we all like to think of ourselves as exceptions when it comes to unflattering statistics, the likelihood is that I am not as present as I think I am or would want to be. If we define “presence” for a doctor as maintaining eye contact, paying close attention to what a patient is saying and not interrupting the statistics aren’t pretty.

An often-quoted 1984 study demonstrated that doctors interrupt patients within 18 seconds, on average. Despite more emphasis in medical schools on communication skills, that appalling figure hasn’t improved much.

Shorter office visits and computer screens in exam rooms haven’t exactly inspired doctors to be more contemplative.

Author and physician Abraham Verghese has urged physicians to slow down, and focus on looking at, listening to, and examining the patients in front of them.

My first day back after my vacation I had 20 patients on my schedule, and several phone messages to return from patients and their family members. One was a woman with traumatic brain injury, who speaks very haltingly. One was a patient who had many questions about a new diagnosis. One came in for a “quick” visit to check out a cough but started talking about her fears of dying of the same disease other members of her family had.

With that neon pharmacy sign flashing in my brain, I resisted my desire to speed up, to interrupt, to get through the day as quickly as possible. I found myself more relaxed than usual, and less exhausted by the enormous effort it requires to resist being present.

And guess what? I left the office the same time I always do.

Suzanne Koven is an internal medicine physician and a Boston Globe columnist.  She blogs at In Practice at Boston.com, where this article originally appeared. She is the author of Say Hello To A Better Body: Weight Loss and Fitness For Women Over 50. 

Prev

Why one doctor throws away insurer mailings

August 5, 2013 Kevin 21
…
Next

Jenny McCarthy on The View: Trading experience for expertise

August 5, 2013 Kevin 6
…

Tagged as: Primary Care

< Previous Post
Why one doctor throws away insurer mailings
Next Post >
Jenny McCarthy on The View: Trading experience for expertise

ADVERTISEMENT

More by Suzanne Koven, MD

  • A hospital leader speaks out against the transgender military ban

    Suzanne Koven, MD
  • a desk with keyboard and ipad with the kevinmd logo

    Don’t hesitate to talk to your doctor about work

    Suzanne Koven, MD
  • a desk with keyboard and ipad with the kevinmd logo

    Patients should silence their phones in the exam room

    Suzanne Koven, MD

More in Physician

  • Why military patients carry pain a chart can’t explain

    Ann Lebeck, MD
  • Leaving medicine is a translation problem, not a loss

    Shveta Gupta, MD, MBA
  • When a divorce ends a physician’s career

    Donald J. Murphy, MD
  • Military sports medicine and the cost of readiness

    Ann Lebeck, MD
  • When medicine confuses professionalism vs. compliance

    Gus W. Krucke, MD
  • Leaving insurance-based practice while burned out is a trap

    Suzanne Gilberg-Lenz, MD
  • Most Popular

  • Past Week

    • DEA fear is reshaping how doctors prescribe

      Ronald L. Lindsay, MD | Physician
    • Violence against doctors: 5 forces that ignite it

      Timothy Lesaca, MD | Physician
    • The double standard at the heart of chronic pain treatment

      Joshua Saylor | Conditions and Diseases
    • Your sinus infection may not be an infection

      Franklyn R. Gergits, DO, MBA | Conditions and Diseases
    • Why does post-discharge care keep breaking down?

      Katherine Owen, RN | Conditions and Diseases
    • Physicians must shape AI in medicine, not watch it

      Sonal Patel, MD | Health Technology
  • Past 6 Months

    • Primary care crisis requires new training and skills

      Justin Oldfield, MD | Physician
    • Polycystic ovary syndrome is more than ovarian

      Oluyemisi Famuyiwa, MD | Conditions and Diseases
    • DEA fear is reshaping how doctors prescribe

      Ronald L. Lindsay, MD | Physician
    • Expanding the SOAP framework boosts health outcomes

      Deepak Gupta, MD and Sarwan Kumar, MD | Physician
    • The handwashing standard nobody finished. Until now.

      Bernadette Burroughs, RN | Conditions and Diseases
    • Primary care access is the real problem, not the system

      Payam Zamani, MD | Physician
  • Recent Posts

    • Physician spouses are paying an uncounted price

      Kendra Harvey | Conditions and Diseases
    • Why military patients carry pain a chart can’t explain

      Ann Lebeck, MD | Physician
    • Leaving medicine is a translation problem, not a loss

      Shveta Gupta, MD, MBA | Physician
    • When “I’ll be right back” becomes a broken promise

      Ksenia Kiseleva, RN | Conditions and Diseases
    • You don’t have to feel called to medicine to be a good doctor [PODCAST]

      The Podcast by KevinMD | Podcast
    • When a divorce ends a physician’s career

      Donald J. Murphy, MD | Physician

Subscribe to KevinMD and never miss a story!

Get free updates delivered free to your inbox.


Find jobs at
Careers by KevinMD.com

Search thousands of physician, PA, NP, and CRNA jobs now.

Learn more

View 9 Comments >

Founded in 2004 by Kevin Pho, MD, KevinMD.com is the web’s leading platform where physicians, advanced practitioners, nurses, medical students, and patients share their insight and tell their stories.

Social

  • Like on Facebook
  • Follow on Twitter
  • Connect on Linkedin
  • Subscribe on Youtube
  • Instagram

ADVERTISEMENT

  • Most Popular

  • Past Week

    • DEA fear is reshaping how doctors prescribe

      Ronald L. Lindsay, MD | Physician
    • Violence against doctors: 5 forces that ignite it

      Timothy Lesaca, MD | Physician
    • The double standard at the heart of chronic pain treatment

      Joshua Saylor | Conditions and Diseases
    • Your sinus infection may not be an infection

      Franklyn R. Gergits, DO, MBA | Conditions and Diseases
    • Why does post-discharge care keep breaking down?

      Katherine Owen, RN | Conditions and Diseases
    • Physicians must shape AI in medicine, not watch it

      Sonal Patel, MD | Health Technology
  • Past 6 Months

    • Primary care crisis requires new training and skills

      Justin Oldfield, MD | Physician
    • Polycystic ovary syndrome is more than ovarian

      Oluyemisi Famuyiwa, MD | Conditions and Diseases
    • DEA fear is reshaping how doctors prescribe

      Ronald L. Lindsay, MD | Physician
    • Expanding the SOAP framework boosts health outcomes

      Deepak Gupta, MD and Sarwan Kumar, MD | Physician
    • The handwashing standard nobody finished. Until now.

      Bernadette Burroughs, RN | Conditions and Diseases
    • Primary care access is the real problem, not the system

      Payam Zamani, MD | Physician
  • Recent Posts

    • Physician spouses are paying an uncounted price

      Kendra Harvey | Conditions and Diseases
    • Why military patients carry pain a chart can’t explain

      Ann Lebeck, MD | Physician
    • Leaving medicine is a translation problem, not a loss

      Shveta Gupta, MD, MBA | Physician
    • When “I’ll be right back” becomes a broken promise

      Ksenia Kiseleva, RN | Conditions and Diseases
    • You don’t have to feel called to medicine to be a good doctor [PODCAST]

      The Podcast by KevinMD | Podcast
    • When a divorce ends a physician’s career

      Donald J. Murphy, MD | Physician

MedPage Today Professional

An Everyday Health Property Medpage Today

Copyright © 2026 KevinMD.com | Powered by Astra WordPress Theme

  • Terms of Use | Disclaimer
  • Privacy Policy
  • DMCA Policy
All Content © KevinMD, LLC
Site by Outthink Group

Is your doctor really present during your visit?
9 comments

Comments are moderated before they are published. Please read the comment policy.

Loading Comments...