It’s OK to cry when a patient dies
As a young medical student, in my early 20s, I was still too inexperienced to know how a physician was “supposed to” act.
But I took the model of stoicism that I learned from my East Indian father and applied it to the medical model. Lectures on “professional detachment” reinforced this. I remember being told that it was the doctor’s job to keep a professional distance from a patient. By getting …