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Just: A word that I’ve resented since leaving clinical medicine

Lumi St. Claire, MD
Physician
January 25, 2013
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Over the past few years, I have realized that I have come to resent the word “just.”  Certainly not in the civil sense of the word: social justice is the driving force behind virtually all the work I do these days.  I am talking about using “just” as a qualifier.  As in, “Oh, I’m just the medical student,” or, “He’s just a nurse.”  We use it blatantly as an offense against others, and more overtly to undermine how we feel about ourselves.  That word has come to mean that in some way, you are not educated enough, not qualified enough, or not worthy enough.

It has been really interesting for me in the years since I left clinical medicine to pursue a decidedly non-traditional career path.  I mean, who finishes high school, college, medical school, and clinical residency and then eventually leaves the job they actually trained to do?  Here’s the secret about all that: your life experience is critical no matter what road you take. I have been extremely successful so far in developing my second career, and I would not be doing nearly as well as I am and getting the high-profile work I am without my past clinical experience. It gives me credibility, knowledge, and perspective that make what I have to offer unique.

What I have quickly come to realize though, is that while I am extremely comfortable with having taken on a new job identity, a lot of my colleagues are not. The “just” word gets batted around constantly.

“But aren’t you bored being just a consultant?”

“Isn’t it weird being just a freelancer instead of a doctor?”

First of all, I never stopped being a doctor.  There are thousands of us who have completed medical school and earned our MD degree (and many who finished clinical residency) who have taken detours to explore other areas of work.  Usually they are related in some way to medicine, but don’t necessarily involve direct patient care.  And guess what?  The MD Police have still not shown up at my door to take away my degree. The last time I checked, those two little letters after my name were still there.

Secondly, and perhaps this is the social justice beast in me rearing its ugly head, I can’t think of a single meaningful job that I would ever feel comfortable putting the word “just” in front of.  Think about what the act of gainful employment provides for us as individuals.  It gives us a sense of worth and need. It puts food on the table.  For some of us who are struggling with temptation, it keeps us honest and clean and helps us resist activities that might lead us to a place of total self-destruction.  Doctors in our current medical system would be virtually ineffective without nurses to actually put their plans into real action and physically take care of patients.  And just because you don’t like someone’s job or think that it is particularly challenging, imagine what your life would be like if the trash collector simply stopped coming to your house.  Not pretty.

I’ve been thinking a lot about “just” in the past couple of years since I switched my career horses in midstream.  Not because I’ve had to wrestle with it at all on a personal level.  I have more peace and joy in my career now than I can remember over the last decade.  It’s really more about the reaction it draws out of other people.  Usually it’s people who have made decisions for themselves that they don’t necessarily feel great about.  But for whatever reason, they feel compelled to stick with their decisions.  I tend to make these people really uncomfortable.  I think it may be because my decision to follow an unorthodox path and find my career happiness again forces them to examine their own decisions more closely.  And sometimes they don’t really like what they find.  Sometimes they are truly stuck because of financial obligations, and are miserable but just don’t see a way out.  I make them unhappy just by being me and feeling fulfilled and standing in the same room with them.  Sometimes people are stuck out of fear, and my lack of fear and my willingness to embrace risk-taking makes them feel bad about their own paralysis.  We are natural comparers as human beings.  We are always looking at what the other guy is doing, and constantly trying to see if we measure up.

Mostly though, it’s other physicians who have the hardest time with my decision to leave clinical medicine.  I think a lot of this has to do with the fact that there is a strong tradition of hard-won success in medicine.  The educational road to becoming a practicing doctor is very long and very hard.  For many people, there is also an enormous identity piece.  Some people are doctors 24/7. I don’t mean that they live in their offices and never go home.  I mean these are the people you will meet at a party (where there are no patients, no white coats, and everyone is drinking wine and eating little puffy hors d’oeuvres), and they will introduce themselves to you as “Dr. So-and-So”. I don’t have particularly strong opinions about whether this is appropriate or not, but it’s something I have never been able to relate to well.  I did not come out of the womb knowing I was going to be a doctor.  I am not one of those people who absolutely cannot imagine themselves doing any other profession.  (Clearly – I have imagined myself right into another line of work.)  For some people, being a doctor is the end-all of their identity, and they are not complete people without it and the respect and honor it deserves.  So these folks are the first ones to ask me how I can possibly be happy just being a consultant, when I could be a doctor?

I remember coming home from a conference a while ago where I had the opportunity to escape for lunch with a colleague who is a wonderful friend, and someone I don’t get to see as often as I would like.  We were having a very energetic conversation about all the work that lay ahead of us and how motivated we were to be doing it with committed and passionate people.  At one point, I was telling her about some of the new opportunities that had come up for me through the conference, as well as some exciting job opportunities at home, and the fact that I also have been committing time to writing, which has made me eternally happy.  I must have looked like some blissed-out kid who had just eaten an entire box of Twinkies (before the vomiting started anyway).  My friend looked at me for a long moment, paused, and simply said,

“My dear, clearly you were never meant to be just an MD.”

There it was, that “just” word again.  Except this time it had a completely different meaning.  It was obvious she hadn’t used it in the sense that being a physician is a lowly occupation, and I could certainly do something more quality with my life.  No, she meant it in the purest form of the word.  She was talking about scope and self-limitation.  Why only be an MD?  Why not use your skill set in new and unique ways to address issues of social injustice? It was such a pleasant shock for me to hear someone use that word in such a positive and fitting way, it was all I could do not to leap across the table and tackle her with a huge hug.

Betty Friedan, the famous early feminist trailblazer and author of The Feminine Mystique, once spoke about how different our lives would be if we simply knew early on that we were going to have three or four different careers throughout our lives.  If somehow that were the norm, how liberating it would be knowing that at any time, you could go ahead and start gaining the skills and education to do something new and exciting with your life.

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Lumi St. Claire is a physician and educational consultant who blogs at My White Coat Is On Fire.

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