Skip to content
  • About
  • Contact
  • Contribute
  • Book
  • Careers
  • Podcast
  • Recommended
  • Speaking
  • All
  • Physician
  • Practice
  • Policy
  • Finance
  • Conditions
  • .edu
  • Patient
  • Meds
  • Tech
  • Social
  • Video
    • All
    • Physician
    • Practice
    • Policy
    • Finance
    • Conditions
    • .edu
    • Patient
    • Meds
    • Tech
    • Social
    • Video
    • About
    • Contact
    • Contribute
    • Book
    • Careers
    • Podcast
    • Recommended
    • Speaking

You need a boss, and a physician coach is the best kind

Laura Grimmer, MD
Physician
January 26, 2020
Share
Tweet
Share

I have no idea who my boss is.  Is it the chief of surgery at my hospital who tells me I need to use more of my block time, or it’ll be reassigned?  Or the office manager who tracks my CME money and vacation days?  Or the medical group administrator who signed my contract and hasn’t spoken to me in two years since then? Or the mentor who was assigned to me when I joined our group, but doesn’t even know my kids’ names?

Similarly, who’s boss am I? The OR staff doesn’t report to me, even though I spend most of my working hours with them.  The clinic staff doesn’t report to me, even though they have the biggest impact on my day to day job satisfaction.

Many employed physicians find themselves in the nebulous world of no boss and no direct reports- and it’s a problem.  If you don’t have a boss, who is checking in to see what’s working well for you, and what’s not?  Who is invested in helping you grow and develop?  What’s the next ‘level up’ and how do you get there?  While autonomy is nice- it can feel a little bit like the conveyor belt of all of our years of training has ended, and we are suddenly thrust off a cliff without any direction.  After years of hierarchical training, it can feel like a huge weight is lifted when you just get to BE. But that freedom becomes aimless after a few years.

My brother in law works as an executive at Exxon Mobile.  Since the day he started there right after college, he has had a very clear path ahead of him with frequent reviews, guideposts, goals, and objectives for his personal and career development.  He is given projects and tasks with the purpose of building him up so that he can continue to move up in the company.  They are invested in developing him as a leader, and that is his boss’s primary job duty.

You don’t have a boss, and that’s a problem. You need someone who wants you to grow.  You need someone to challenge you and lay out a path for you that you want to walk down.  While another administrator is the last thing that the medical world needs, we desperately need physician coaches.  Coaches can focus on you and your career.  They aren’t beholden to your patient referral base or insurance companies. As a physician-to-physician coach, I help physicians utilize their natural strengths to build authentic and fulfilling lives and careers.  The Physician Coaching Alliance is a group of like-minded physician coaches who can be your cheerleader, your Yoda, and your guide.  Because you need a boss, and a physician coach is the best kind.

Laura Grimmer is a general surgeon.

Image credit: Shutterstock.com

Prev

The impact of panels early in medical school on informing patient-centered care

January 26, 2020 Kevin 0
…
Next

How doctors can get fit while they sit

January 26, 2020 Kevin 0
…

Tagged as: Practice Management

Post navigation

< Previous Post
The impact of panels early in medical school on informing patient-centered care
Next Post >
How doctors can get fit while they sit

ADVERTISEMENT

Related Posts

  • A physician’s addiction to social media

    Amanda Xi, MD
  • Physician Suicide Awareness Day: Where are the patients? 

    Jennifer M. Sweeney
  • How a physician keynote can highlight your conference

    Kevin Pho, MD
  • Chasing numbers contributes to physician burnout

    DrizzleMD
  • The black physician’s burden

    Naomi Tweyo Nkinsi
  • Why this physician supports Medicare for all

    Thad Salmon, MD

More in Physician

  • The Dr. Google debate: Building a doctor-patient partnership

    Santina Wheat, MD, MPH
  • Physician coaching: a path to sustainable medicine

    Ben Reinking, MD
  • Physician investment in patients: ethical risks and rewards

    Francisco M. Torres, MD
  • How physician coaching helps restore energy reserves

    Diane W. Shannon, MD, MPH
  • Why physician wellness programs must evolve beyond institutions

    Jessie Mahoney, MD
  • Public health and primary care integration

    Tyler B. Evans, MD, MPH
  • Most Popular

  • Past Week

    • Why patient trust in physicians is declining

      Mansi Kotwal, MD, MPH | Physician
    • Why doctors struggle with treating friends and family

      Rebecca Margolis, DO and Alyson Axelrod, DO | Physician
    • Is tramadol really ineffective and risky?

      John A. Bumpus, PhD | Meds
    • When racism findings challenge institutional narratives

      Anonymous | Physician
    • 5 things health care must stop doing to improve physician well-being

      Christie Mulholland, MD | Physician
    • Lemon juice for kidney stones: Does it work?

      David Rosenthal | Conditions
  • Past 6 Months

    • Why patient trust in physicians is declining

      Mansi Kotwal, MD, MPH | Physician
    • The blind men and the elephant: a parable for modern pain management

      Richard A. Lawhern, PhD | Conditions
    • Is primary care becoming a triage station?

      J. Leonard Lichtenfeld, MD | Physician
    • Psychiatrists are physicians: a key distinction

      Farid Sabet-Sharghi, MD | Physician
    • Why feeling unlike yourself is a sign of physician emotional overload

      Stephanie Wellington, MD | Physician
    • The loss of community pharmacy expertise

      Muhammad Abdullah Khan | Conditions
  • Recent Posts

    • Why midlife men feel lost and exhausted [PODCAST]

      The Podcast by KevinMD | Podcast
    • The Dr. Google debate: Building a doctor-patient partnership

      Santina Wheat, MD, MPH | Physician
    • Why home-based care fails without integrated medication and nutrition

      Gerald Kuo | Conditions
    • Psychedelic-assisted therapy: science, safety, and regulation

      Muhamad Aly Rifai, MD | Meds
    • Physician coaching: a path to sustainable medicine

      Ben Reinking, MD | Physician
    • Methodological errors in Cochrane reviews of anticoagulation therapy

      David K. Cundiff, MD | Conditions

Subscribe to KevinMD and never miss a story!

Get free updates delivered free to your inbox.


Find jobs at
Careers by KevinMD.com

Search thousands of physician, PA, NP, and CRNA jobs now.

Learn more

Leave a Comment

Founded in 2004 by Kevin Pho, MD, KevinMD.com is the web’s leading platform where physicians, advanced practitioners, nurses, medical students, and patients share their insight and tell their stories.

Social

  • Like on Facebook
  • Follow on Twitter
  • Connect on Linkedin
  • Subscribe on Youtube
  • Instagram

ADVERTISEMENT

ADVERTISEMENT

  • Most Popular

  • Past Week

    • Why patient trust in physicians is declining

      Mansi Kotwal, MD, MPH | Physician
    • Why doctors struggle with treating friends and family

      Rebecca Margolis, DO and Alyson Axelrod, DO | Physician
    • Is tramadol really ineffective and risky?

      John A. Bumpus, PhD | Meds
    • When racism findings challenge institutional narratives

      Anonymous | Physician
    • 5 things health care must stop doing to improve physician well-being

      Christie Mulholland, MD | Physician
    • Lemon juice for kidney stones: Does it work?

      David Rosenthal | Conditions
  • Past 6 Months

    • Why patient trust in physicians is declining

      Mansi Kotwal, MD, MPH | Physician
    • The blind men and the elephant: a parable for modern pain management

      Richard A. Lawhern, PhD | Conditions
    • Is primary care becoming a triage station?

      J. Leonard Lichtenfeld, MD | Physician
    • Psychiatrists are physicians: a key distinction

      Farid Sabet-Sharghi, MD | Physician
    • Why feeling unlike yourself is a sign of physician emotional overload

      Stephanie Wellington, MD | Physician
    • The loss of community pharmacy expertise

      Muhammad Abdullah Khan | Conditions
  • Recent Posts

    • Why midlife men feel lost and exhausted [PODCAST]

      The Podcast by KevinMD | Podcast
    • The Dr. Google debate: Building a doctor-patient partnership

      Santina Wheat, MD, MPH | Physician
    • Why home-based care fails without integrated medication and nutrition

      Gerald Kuo | Conditions
    • Psychedelic-assisted therapy: science, safety, and regulation

      Muhamad Aly Rifai, MD | Meds
    • Physician coaching: a path to sustainable medicine

      Ben Reinking, MD | Physician
    • Methodological errors in Cochrane reviews of anticoagulation therapy

      David K. Cundiff, MD | Conditions

MedPage Today Professional

An Everyday Health Property Medpage Today
  • Terms of Use | Disclaimer
  • Privacy Policy
  • DMCA Policy
All Content © KevinMD, LLC
Site by Outthink Group

Leave a Comment

Comments are moderated before they are published. Please read the comment policy.

Loading Comments...