Preyasha Tuladhar is a family physician.
For the longest time, I believed that if I gave myself fully, 24/7, to work, to my son, to my marriage, to my friends, then eventually, everything would fall into place. That maybe, just maybe, I would finally be able to answer every message, refill every prescription, kiss every scraped knee, and fix all the things.
But what I’ve come to understand is that we, especially women, though not exclusively, often …
Today I want to speak into something we don’t talk about enough. In a world where female physicians are constantly pulled in every direction—as doctors, mothers, wives, daughters—we often forget our own personhood.
Between closing charts, answering endless patient messages, kissing boo-boos, and making sure every event has the right outfit, we forget to eat, to sleep, to breathe. And no one is doing this to us maliciously—but it happens, because …
As primary care providers, we play an integral role in shaping the lives of our patients in critical ways. We are in the unique position to delve into a patient’s unique biomedical, psychosocial, economic, and cultural background, which allows us to understand each patient at a deeper level with a nuanced perspective. This holistic view informs the development of highly personalized treatment plans that have the power not only to …
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