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If we return to normal in medicine, have we lost the lesson of the pandemic? 

Stephanie Wellington, MD
Conditions
April 23, 2020
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My energy has been bottled up. It’s not just over the past few weeks during this pandemic. It has been bottled up and backlogged in some areas of my life for decades.

The recent turn of life events has just made it even more glaring and evident to me. It forced and demanded that I do something about it.

The traffic jam of my energy manifested itself in procrastination and putting things off until the very last minute. If there were a deadline, I’d wait until the last minute and get it done just under the deadline. I told myself I work better under pressure. With that pressure came a dash of stress and a pinch of overwhelm in just the right amounts to make life feel challenging more often than it needed to be.

The newest challenge, COVID-19, made me look at life in an entirely new way. It made me face the realities of my children, my career, and the direction we are headed. As young adults, one in college and one headed to college in a few months, what does it mean for a young person excited to venture out on their own to now be made to stay home? How do I evolve to support them and allow for their own growth and expansion?

COVID-19 made me go back to basics. I know how to use the daily practices of meditation, goal setting, and inspired action to gain traction and experience results. I’ve done it in the past. I’d feel the shift in my energy, get excited about the progress, and before I knew it, life got busy. I’d forget to take a few minutes every morning to get into silence and allow myself to be.

The result was that I lost my inspiration and motivation. Slowly, I slipped backward, never really returning to my starting point but never fully achieving my greatest desires.

COVID-19 demands that I do not stop. It requires me to do the work- the morning meditation, the journaling, and the evening reflection. They are now an essential part of my day. It’s been weeks since I reintegrated them into my life. I see and, more importantly, feel the benefits of maintaining my sense of peace and hope, love, and faith.

It is working.

I know because communication with my young adult children, who are learning from home via distance, is different, better, and tailored to them as individuals.

I know it works because when I’m triggered by a news update, a social media post, or an empty aisle in the grocery store, I can instantly shift my focus onto where I want to be in the next six months, 12 months, or years from now where my dreams reside. There is magic in that. It opens the portal for inspiration, motivation, and creativity.

I know it’s working because when I connect to my spirit, I allow it to guide my life.

Medicine is undergoing its own transformation. In the media, there is a discussion about when the restrictions will be lifted and we can return to normal life. I wonder, if we return to normal in medicine, have we lost the lesson of this pandemic?

My goal is to harness this new momentum. My intention is to stay on point with what I see working for me on most days. Maybe I will slip and miss a day here and there, but I plan not to slip too often because I see that it is working.

In medicine, is the goal to return to a system that had flaws and left the physicians out of the solution? Let’s imagine that we emerge from this pandemic with a new culture that incorporates the human factor for physicians.

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Stephanie Wellington is a physician, certified professional coach, and founder of Nurturing MDs, dedicated to guiding physicians from stress and overwhelm to ease and flow in the demanding medical field. She empowers clinicians to infuse new energy into their careers and reconnect with their identities beyond the stethoscope. She can also be reached on Facebook and LinkedIn.

She is a speaker, author, and recipient of the Excellence in Teaching Award. If stress and overwhelm are part of your practice, get started with the free guide: “15 Ways to Infuse New Energy.”

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