I remember a patient who sat silently, staring at the hospital ceiling. She had survived a sudden illness that left her body weak and her spirit shaken. No tests, medications, or procedures could touch the despair in her eyes. In that moment, I realized something fundamental: The physician’s presence itself can be the most potent form of care.
Medicine, at its best, is more than diagnosis or intervention. It is an encounter with a human being navigating the turbulence of life and suffering. Two streams of thought have quietly guided my practice: phenomenology, the philosophical attention to lived experience, and a spiritually informed view of the human soul as noble, meaningful, and capable of growth. Together, they offer a way to understand and alleviate suffering without reducing it to a set of symptoms, or dismissing it as meaningless.
Attending to experience
Phenomenology teaches physicians to step back from assumptions: the urge to label, categorize, or immediately fix. Instead, it asks us to notice how suffering is actually lived, how illness disrupts time, fractures identity, and alters engagement with the world.
A patient with chronic pain may experience more than physical discomfort: the erosion of daily purpose, the isolation of diminished mobility, the threat of dependency. A patient facing cancer may feel time stolen, a body betrayed, a world alien. Seeing these experiences on their own terms allows us to witness, and in witnessing, we validate the reality of suffering itself.
Assuming dignity
A spiritually informed perspective adds another layer: Every patient has inherent dignity and latent capacity. Even in despair, even when agency seems lost, the soul’s core remains intact. This stance is not naive optimism; it is a pragmatic orientation toward the patient as a whole.
Medicine, then, becomes a space where the patient can re-encounter themselves. Interventions, whether medication, surgery, or therapy, support this awakening; they are tools, not definitions of identity. Healing begins with recognition: That the person before us is whole, even if temporarily diminished.
Suffering as real, yet not final
Both phenomenology and a spiritually informed view affirm that suffering is real, unavoidable, and significant. Yet it is not the sum total of existence. Pain and illness can be integrated into a broader human trajectory, where insight, resilience, and ethical action remain possible.
As physicians, we cannot promise cure or perfection, but we can embody hope. Not by preaching or moralizing, but by offering a steady, patient presence, validating suffering without judgment, and supporting the patient’s capacity to act, connect, and engage with life.
Ethical action as healing
True alleviation of suffering extends beyond the body. Human flourishing occurs when one can act meaningfully, contribute, and engage ethically. Every interaction, the bedside conversation, the supportive guidance, the encouragement to pursue purpose, is part of restoring agency and connection.
Medicine is thus not only a science but an art: the art of witnessing, accompanying, and facilitating the patient’s participation in life. It is the combination of skill, presence, and moral attentiveness that transforms the encounter from procedure to service.
A quiet, patient presence
The physician is not a fixer, nor a detached observer, nor a guarantor of outcomes. We are custodians of a space in which healing may unfold, through insight, through agency, through renewed connection with self and world. Even when the cure is limited, accompaniment is not. Even when outcomes are uncertain, dignity and hope remain.
Medicine practiced phenomenologically and with a spiritually informed vision is therefore quiet, patient service to the human spirit. Interventions support life; the deeper work, the work that transforms suffering into possibility, occurs in the attentive, ethical, and reverent presence of the physician, guiding each person toward renewed agency, dignity, and hope.
Farid Sabet-Sharghi is a psychiatrist.




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