The enemy is not death. The enemy is needless suffering.
Among hospice staff, it is called “getting it.” One says, “He doesn’t get it,” “I think she gets it,” or, “They definitely get it.” It is a little hard to define, but as with pornography, you know it when you see it. Nonetheless, given the importance of “getting” good end-of-life care, let us take a moment to try and explain.
The 92-year-old patient is bleeding into her head, but has blood …