“If you tell me how you get your feeling of importance, I’ll tell you what you are. That determines your character. That is the most significant thing about you.”
– Dale Carnegie, How to Make Friends and Influence People
We all want to feel seen, recognized, and appreciated. That’s human nature. But where do you get your feeling of importance? What aspects of yourself are essential to who you are and how …
It’s a moment I’ve come to recognize too well as a psychiatry resident: a patient walks into my office already convinced of their diagnosis. They’ve watched a dozen videos, followed mental health influencers on Instagram, and taken online quizzes that “confirmed” what they suspected. They have ADHD, or autism, or borderline personality disorder. They’re not here for an evaluation; they’re here for validation.
On one hand, this moment feels like progress. …
I wield my instrument with confidence and precision. It slices through the air as an extension of my dominant hand. My feet shift slightly; I anticipate needing to reposition my body for the next step. I execute the move flawlessly. No, I’m not in the midst of performing a medical procedure: I’m on the tennis court. My husband had been encouraging me to take up tennis for a while, but …
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Gerontologist Michael Pessman discusses his article, “Why what you do in midlife matters most.” Michael explains why the ages of 45-55 are a critical window and final opportunity to build healthy habits …
Testosterone therapy is receiving renewed attention, not only from patients but also from regulatory agencies. In recent months, the U.S. Food and Drug Administration (FDA) updated the safety information for testosterone products, reflecting new evidence on cardiovascular risk. This has generated understandable questions among men who are considering therapy and clinicians who prescribe it.
As a urologist, I frequently meet patients who are uncertain about the safety of testosterone treatment, particularly …
Delta Airlines has been raising money for the Breast Cancer Research Foundation by selling cocktails and rosé on board flights for 20 years. This month, it’s Une Femme Sparkling Rosé. Delta also serves gouda and cheddar slices, along with chicken salad sandwiches topped with queso. Have a drink or two, snack on cheese, and feel good about sending money for research, a party for a cause.
Yet, studies have shown that …
Something unsettling is happening in medicine, and many of us feel it even if we haven’t said it out loud: evidence-based medicine is slowly being eroded, not just by outsiders, but from within our own profession.
Patients today are searching more than ever before for quick fixes, and physicians are increasingly stepping into the marketplace to meet that demand. Hormone pellets. “Longevity protocols.” Peptides that sound scientific but have no real …
Infertility affects one in six people of reproductive age worldwide, yet it remains one of the most overlooked public health challenges of our time. For decades, millions of individuals and couples have navigated this journey in silence, carrying grief, stigma, financial strain, and deep uncertainty about their reproductive futures. Despite its prevalence, infertility has rarely been treated as a global health priority.
That changed this year when the World Health Organization …
Many of the physicians I work with live with a quiet weight of imposter syndrome. They show up every day for patients, teams, and families, yet doubt their own belonging.
I wrote a short reverse poem, “Worthy in Reverse,” as a way to explore how self-talk can shape that inner experience. This poem was inspired by “Worst Day Ever?” by Chanie Gorkin, which creatively uses structure to shift perspective.
It is simple …
Two years ago, I asked, “Doctors diagnosing addiction: Are the blind leading the blind?”
The estimated rates of substance use disorder among clinical patients treated for pain vary greatly, depending on whom one believes. Studies also suffer from a widespread failure to address genetically mediated variability in minimum effective opioid dose between individuals. Thus, I have many times respectfully suggested that the entire body of literature on opioid …
As a pain management specialist, my intent is not to promote unchecked opioid prescribing or overlook the serious risks these medications pose. Instead, I advocate for viewing the full picture in patient care. Physicians, trained in medicine and its side effects, must be empowered to use their knowledge and direct observations, including subtle cues like body language and patient interactions during brief visits, to make tailored decisions. Documentation in charts …
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Pediatric anesthesiologist Irim Salik discusses her article, “The hidden danger in pediatric dental offices.” Irim reveals a terrifying oversight in ambulatory pediatric dental care: children are suffering neurologic injuries or dying during …
Anyone close to me knows orthopedics has never been my cup of tea. I rarely studied it properly; somehow, my enthusiasm always remained low. No offence to the subject, but maybe it started the day I saw my best friend’s forearm break. Fractures have always made me uncomfortable. During one of our postings, we were asked to do a case presentation. A patient was assigned to us, and it happened …
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The first pitfall is determining the effect of a threshold. Some agreements provide a salary “assuming a minimum threshold of” some number of wRVUs. I have reviewed many agreements with a provision like that …
“When people with ADHD are able to get the treatment that they need as soon as they’re diagnosed as children, it gives them the best chance to realize their full potential.” These were the words that hit me like a ton of bricks one day as my preceptor was talking about his experiences treating adult patients with ADHD. I was soaking up every bit of information as he was teaching …
Have you ever wondered how a single online comment might shape your reputation as a physician? I have, especially after reading a review that sardonically suggested I had earned my medical degree from Amazon (the company, not the rainforest). The jab was clearly meant to sting. Although I regret the dissatisfaction behind it, it gave me pause. How much weight do we give these offhand remarks, and what do they …
Every cardiology clinic has them: patients with swollen, aching legs and bulging varicose veins. We talk about conservative management: exercise, leg elevation, and, of course, compression stockings. And almost without fail, patients smile politely, nod, and then admit at the next visit: “I couldn’t wear them. They’re too tight, too hot, too uncomfortable.”
The paradox of a simple solution
Compression stockings are one of the most effective noninvasive treatments for varicose veins …
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Dentist Lincoln Harris discusses his article, “How cloud-based simulation training is revolutionizing dentistry.” Drawing on his background as a pilot, Lincoln exposes the critical training gap in modern dentistry, arguing that dentists …
I’ve seen clients start GLP-1 medications full of hope, and stop them feeling betrayed by their own biology. Some reached their limit with side effects: relentless nausea, fatigue, or the quiet loss of joy in eating. Others simply couldn’t afford to stay on. A few never saw the promised results at all. But for nearly all of them, the story ended the same way: one step forward, five steps back.
We …
Most midlife men don’t walk into our clinics asking for help. They walk in asking for labs.
They’ll tell us they’re “just tired,” “not as sharp,” or “feeling off.” They’ll blame work or age. They’ll ask for hormone testing or a quick fix. What they rarely say (and what most of us rarely ask about) is the deeper truth underneath the symptoms.
There is a silent crisis unfolding in midlife men, and …
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