He had just been named a partner. The youngest in the firm’s history. The first thing he said when he sat down in my office was, “I think they made a mistake.” I have heard some version of this more times than I can count, from physicians, attorneys, founders, and C-suite executives. People whose resumes would make anyone’s jaw drop, yet who live with a persistent, quiet dread that someone will tap them on the shoulder and say, “We figured it out. You don’t actually belong here.”
That is imposter syndrome. And it does not go away just because you succeed. In many cases, it gets louder. Most people assume imposter syndrome is something you outgrow as you rack up accomplishments. Once you have the title, the track record, and the evidence, should that not take care of it? It does not. Here is the part that surprises people: Success can make it worse.
The paradox of high achievement
Every promotion, every award, every new responsibility raises the stakes. You are no longer worried about failing a test. You are worried about failing a company, a team, or a patient population. Visibility is higher, the margin for error feels smaller, and the internal narrative shifts from “I got lucky” to “How long before they realize I can’t keep this up?”
What I see clinically is a very specific pattern. These professionals are not lacking confidence in every area. They can be bold decision-makers, excellent parents, and deeply competent in many ways. But there is one pocket tied to their most visible professional identity where they cannot internalize that they have earned their place.
There is a reason for this, and it is not a character flaw. Our brains are wired to focus more on threats than on rewards. That wiring means a single critical comment can outweigh 100 positive ones. Each new success does not register as proof of ability; it feels like a higher platform from which to fall.
The roots of persistent self-doubt
Perfectionism plays a major role. Many professionals I work with set standards that are genuinely unattainable, not merely high. When they fall short, they see it as confirmation that they are not good enough. It becomes a self-reinforcing loop: set an impossible bar, fall short, feel like a fraud, work even harder, repeat. Several factors keep imposter syndrome alive even years into successful careers:
- First, high-performing environments reward the appearance of certainty. Admitting doubt feels dangerous, so they mask it, cultivating a polished exterior even as the internal experience is anxiety. Over time, the gap between public persona and private experience widens, and that gap itself begins to feel like evidence of fraud.
- Second, many high achievers grew up in families or cultures where approval was closely tied to performance. When your worth has always been measured by what you produce, it is incredibly hard to separate your identity from your work. Every evaluation becomes a referendum on your value as a person.
- Third, and this does not get enough attention, systemic factors matter. Women, people of color, and first-generation professionals navigating environments not designed for them shoulder an additional burden. It is not just “Am I good enough?” It is “Am I good enough to be here?” That is a fundamentally different psychological weight.
Strategies for overcoming the imposter voice
So, what helps? The first step is naming it. Many clients come in describing anxiety or burnout. When we unpack it, the imposter piece is at the center. Just having language for the experience brings relief. “Oh, this is a known thing. I’m not the only one.” That alone shifts something.
Cognitive behavioral approaches are highly effective. The core of imposter syndrome is a distorted belief, “I only got here because of luck,” or “If I make one mistake, everything falls apart.” These are thoughts, not facts. They can be examined, challenged, and replaced. I often have clients keep a log of moments when they dismissed their competence, and we review the evidence together. It sounds simple. It is powerful.
Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) is another approach I find particularly useful. ACT does not aim to eliminate self-doubt; it helps people change their relationship to it. You can notice the thought “I don’t deserve this” without letting it drive your behavior. The goal is not to feel fearless. It is to act in alignment with your values, even when the imposter voice is loud.
Finally, I encourage strategic vulnerability, deliberately sharing honestly with trusted colleagues or mentors. When a senior leader says, “I’m struggling with this,” and a peer responds, “Me too,” something shifts. The isolation that imposter syndrome thrives on begins to dissolve.
Here is what I want every high-achieving professional to know: Questioning yourself does not mean you are failing. It often means you care deeply about doing excellent work. But when self-doubt starts interfering with your ability to enjoy your accomplishments or take on new challenges, it deserves attention. You do not have to earn your way out of imposter syndrome by achieving more. You have already done enough. The work now is helping your brain catch up to what the rest of the world already sees.
Ritu Goel is a double board-certified child, adolescent, and adult psychiatrist and founder of MindClaire PC in Long Beach, California. A distinguished fellow of the American Academy of Child and Adolescent Psychiatry and a California-certified qualified medical evaluator, she trained across three continents before serving on the faculty of Johns Hopkins University School of Medicine and Kennedy Krieger Institute, as well as the University at Buffalo Department of Psychiatry.
Dr. Goel leads clinical research as a principal investigator and data monitoring committee member across multiple pediatric psychiatry trials. Her peer-reviewed publications include work on pharmacotherapy for autism spectrum disorder in children and adolescents, postgraduate psychiatric training, and substance use-related delirium. Her commentary and public writing have appeared in JAMA Pediatrics, MedShadow Foundation, Forbes Business Council, and Women of Influence+, with additional work submitted to the IACAPAP Bulletin for 2026.
She is a featured speaker at the 2026 Mental Health Summit and an expert on MedShadow Foundation webinars. Her forthcoming book, Before You Decide: A Psychiatrist’s Guide to the Choices That Shape Your Child’s Life, reflects her commitment to helping families make informed, evidence-based decisions with clarity and compassion. She shares professional updates at MindClaire and on LinkedIn.









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