Why physicians struggle with caregiving and how to cope with grace
As physicians, we are trained to care—for patients, colleagues, and our communities.
When it comes to caring for our own aging parents and ill family members, most of us find ourselves overwhelmed, overfunctioning, under-resourced, depleted, and isolated. More often than not, we find ourselves assigned the caregiving role—explicitly or implicitly—because we’re “the doctor in the family.”
We think our medical training should make caregiving easier. But the opposite is true. We know …