Why some doctors age gracefully—and others grow bitter
“Some people learn. Some don’t.
For the former, growing old is a joy.
For the latter, it is hell.”
I’ve seen both.
In exam rooms, break rooms, ORs, and coaching sessions. One physician softens—more present, less defended. Another hardens—brittle, often angry.
The difference isn’t intelligence, training, or temperament.
It’s whether they’re willing to learn—not just from books or trials, but from life itself.
What happens when physicians refuse to learn
Medicine does not require emotional growth to function. …
