Patients and caregivers writing on KevinMD about the experience of illness and the health care system from the other side of the exam table: navigating care, the doctor-patient relationship, being heard, and what patients want physicians to understand. Physicians who have become patients write here too. For the record of what pain patients and physicians have said to each other about opioids and chronic pain since 2007, with patient authors cited at the same weight as physicians, see Opioids: what physicians and pain patients say, in their own words. For what patients, families, and physicians have said about dying, hospice, and the decisions families face at the end of life, see End of life: what physicians say, in their own words. For what women and the physicians who treat them have said about pregnancy, menopause, and the conditions dismissed for years, see Women's health: what physicians say, in their own words. For what physicians have said about consent, honesty, and who decides, see Medical ethics: what physicians say, in their own words.
by Katherine O’Brien
Cancer patients usually say they want a cure. Well, of course, that goes without saying. But it’s also kind of annoying.
We’ve all, as children and adults, had those “What if” conversations. What if you could have anything you wanted in the whole world? Depending on the respondents’ ages, people might say anything from “a …
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Cancer is a crime, and how a tumor board is the courtroom
Sam was late and Ella was furious. “Now why isn’t that man back by now? He knows it’s time to leave for church.”
The hours began to pass and Ella became frightened. Sam had gone out for his usual two mile run and had simply disappeared. Ella called friends and neighbors but no one had seen him. Panic began to set in so Ella called 911 who connected her to the …
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How a patient’s organs could live on and be life saving to a recipient
How do I get my concerns heard about the direction of my treatment?
On the surface, it seems easy. Just tell your psychiatrist what you want him to pay attention to.
On the other hand, there are many reasons why it not so simple.
- Many psychiatrists diagnose a patient’s illness after a 45-50 minute interview, without doing any tests to rule out potential medical causes of …
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How to be heard by your psychiatrist
Harold was 51 years old and needed his left arm amputated. A year ago he noticed some swelling in his forearm and went to his primary care doctor.
An MRI showed something. It was small and hard to define, hard to categorize, probably a collection of blood, but there was an outside chance it could be a sarcoma, a tumor originating from muscle …
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Arm amputation from a rare sarcoma
Occasionally, you may encounter patients who you no longer wish to treat. Reasons for ending the physician-patient relationship may include chronic non-compliance, rudeness to office staff, or non-payment of bills.
While these patient behaviors can affect the interactive care-giving process, they may also identify patients with a propensity to file a claim against you. To help reduce the risk …
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How to discharge a patient from your practice
At LesliesList.org we get many emails asking where an adult can get low cost vaccines.
It appears the answer is… nowhere. They don’t exist– unless you are an established patient in one of the county-funded or low-cost clinics in your metropolitan area. However, you can save a little money by comparison shopping. I think your best bet is to try one of the walk-in …
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Where an adult can get low cost vaccines
In the recent Coen brothers’ remake of the 1969 movie True Grit, Mattie Ross, an intrepid 14-year-old, is determined to hunt down and kill the man who murdered her father.
To accomplish this, she hires U.S. Marshal Rooster Cogburn, (played by a mumbling Jeff Bridges) a rough, one-eyed veteran of many such quests – then announces that she plans to come along. She figures she is prepared.
After all, she and her …
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True Grit and sharing decisions on health care with our doctors
by Diana E. Lee
None of us really wants to sabotage a doctor’s appointment through our own behavior. But it’s easy to do just that by not paying attention to the factors within our control that affect the quality of our appointments.
These are some behaviors to avoid at all costs:
1. Show up late for appointments. It’s an unfortunate …
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How to sabotage a doctor’s appointment
by Sally Scroggs, RD
About 130 million Americans will eat out on any given day this year. While dining out shouldn’t mean “pigging out,” picking a salad over cheese fries can sometimes be difficult.
According to the American Cancer Society, making healthy food choices is one of the most important things you can do to reduce your cancer risks. But nutritional experts say many of us don’t make good …
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A healthy plan for dining out
Insomnia plagues me. In that, I’m no different from millions of other Americans. But I am different in that I sought supposed experts to help me deal with this situation. My experience proved to be a nightmare.
First, I believed my sleeplessness due to the fact I feel “on,” all the time, doing too many things in the space of 24 hours. …
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Screen your sleep lab when evaluating your insomnia
by Tarcia Edmunds-Jehu
Sitting in an exam room I am watching my patient struggling to ask a difficult question that she clearly does not want to ask.
After several attempts at starting and a few half finished sentences she finally manages to mumble a request for help with obtaining food for herself and her two daughters. She is a 41-year-old woman, 32 weeks pregnant with her third …
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Ordering tests may take food out of the mouths of our patients
When it comes to caring for the sick, it’s often assumed that health professionals and their patients usually get along.
But that’s not always true. Sales people call some of their customers difficult. Turns out that doctors do exactly the same thing with theirs. An article in the current issue of the journal Neurology provides a catalog of difficult …
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When a patient evokes an emotional reaction from a physician
This has been a very busy week already. I have seen many second opinions and I am always very interested in the reason why the patient initiated the second opinion.
In many situations it was simply to see if I would perform the surgery. After I spent a while listening to the patient, examining them and coming up with an appropriate …
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Why patients seek a second opinion
I imagine the world as a vast, boundless frontier weathered by our swirling human emotions and complicated energies — hurricanes of intense heartbreak and tornadoes of joyous, unbridled celebrations, with every weather pattern in between. Sunshine and rain included.
If I could gather this world, foolishly believing that I could sweep my arms and hands through the unsuspecting air to collect a smaller, more-contained version of reality, I know with absolute …
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Becoming the official caregiver to your sick parent